初见静静，擦身而过，长发及腰，肤白貌美大长腿，这种女孩儿于我也只会是擦肩而过的缘分。JINGJING is a beautiful girl, long hair to waist, white skin, long legs, this is the first imagination in my mind.再见静静，那年我们两个都是大肚婆，静静依然漂亮，我们每天在小区固定时间遛弯儿，围绕孩子，每次还真能聊上几句，慢慢的，我们开始熟络起来。We are both pregnant when we met the second time. She is still beautiful. We walked around at a fixed time in the community every day, this made us known each other well, we started to talk about the children.这个女孩暴脾气，爱玩儿；但她眼神清澈，真实，有礼貌，爱憎分明；这样的品格之于我可以做个好朋友。This girl has a hot temper, she likes to play, but her eyes are clear, real, polite and sure knows how to express love and hate. This kind of character makes her as a good friend of mine.她爱美，曾经不化妆不出门，一年四季昂贵的护肤品化妆品让你几乎见不到她的素颜；她爱玩儿，酒吧里灯红酒绿划拳喝酒她从来不逊，但是她永远让自己清醒的回家；她暴脾气，一点就燃，嗓门大的跟自己的装扮一点不搭，但是始终讲道理；她爱憎分明，两肋插刀的事听说干了不少……..She likes to be attractive and never goes out of the house without making up. You can hardly see her real face. She never timid when drinking, but always let herself go home soberly. She has a loud voice, which doesn't match her dress, but she is always reasonable.慢慢孩子长大上幼儿园，她居然让她妈妈放假，自己回家带孩子，她说隔代带孩子对孩子的教育会影响孩子的成长，从此她告别了以前喜欢的一切，开始专心在家，没事儿的时候画个画。我们闲聊的时候她跟我说这辈子最大的梦想就是不上班。我居然开始欣赏并喜欢这个爽朗的妹子。When the child grew up and went to kindergarten, she let her mother take a rest and then she take care of her children by herself. She said that children's growth needs their mother's company. From then on, she said goodbye to everything she used to like and began to focus on family. When we chatted, she told me that the biggest dream of her life was not to work. I actually began to appreciate and like this bright girl.女人真的是一步步改变的动物，孩子上学了，家长群里热闹起来，不乏有知识渊博、经济独立、职场风光的家长们在群里发表各种言论，不断的让她神经受刺激，同时也想给自己孩子树立榜样。她反悔了，不上班的梦想自己吃了进去。为了兼顾孩子，她做起了微商、开起了淘宝店，甚至因为自己形象良好，奢侈品经验丰富，跑去奢侈品店当导购，一切只是为了做一个非全职更独立的妈妈。Women are fickle. When children go to school, the parent group is becoming lively. There are many parents who are knowledgeable and independent make various comments in the group, constantly stimulating her nerves. At the same time, JINGJING also want to set an example for her children. She’s back to work. In order to take care of her children at the same time, she started a wechat business and ran a Taobao store, even went to luxury store as a shopping guide. All she did was hope to be an independent mother.我们经常一起聊天，我喜欢她的真实，也欣赏她长大的故事，我记得有一天她跟我说，如果让她回到从前，她要做好两件事：一是读好书；二是做好事业；静静彻底变了，我回她：现在努力，一切不晚。We often chat together. I like her real and appreciate her story. I remember that one day she told me that if she could go back to the past, she would do two things well. One is study hard, the other is working hard; JINGJING completely changed, I told her that it's never too late to work hard.所以有了后来，我邀请她做回她的老本行，加入我们团队一起来做国内电商，因为我相信妈妈的力量。我希望这样的妈妈之于我能成为事业上的好帮手，好伙伴。So I invited her to join our team to do domestic e-commerce, because I believe the power of mother. I hope such a mother can be a good helper and partner in my career.未来学习的路都很长，愿她自己保持最初的心，让自己蜕变成最耀眼的自己，然后才是妈妈。The road of learning is very long. I wish she could keep her dream and make herself into the most dazzling one, and then the mother.
